Dating. What I’ve Learned.

It recently occurred to me that I’ve now been dating online for close to a year. And over the course of many dates, many drinks, many meals and many conversations with my wisest girlfriends, I’ve learned a few valuable lessons, namely:

1: Remember, you get what you give. 

2: If you want to BE a man’s girlfriend, behave as if you are already his girlfriend. It’s like The Secret up in this business.

3: If you’ve repeatedly dated non-committal men, yet want to be in a relationship, they’re not the problem, you are. As Patty Stanger might say, your picker’s broken. If you want to be in a relationship, choose men who want to be in relationships.

What’s the best advice on dating you’ve received recently?